This is the 500th post on this blog. Wow!! When I started writing in this one I didn't think I'd still be posting 6 years later, after all it was called 40k in 4 Years.
This isn't my first blog! I first started writing a blog in 2007 about my life in the ultra running world, encouraged by a dear friend who was sadly taken too soon. Then in 2010 I started a new one about the period when I was first separated. I re read some of it lately and it was a tough read! Then in 2011 I decided I would train for a triathlon and record my thoughts in yet another blog. Oh and there was the Soup Kitchen blog too (link above) so that takes us to 2012 and the start of this one.
In 2012 I was still living in my dream house in the Perthshire countryside. My ex had agreed to continue paying the mortgage as my youngest son was 14 and still in school. Then when he turned 18 we would sell the house. I would maintain and decorate the house in those 4 years while finding ways to generate an income from it.
I had a plan that required £40k to turn the house into 3 apartments (it had been staff accommodation for the big house next house and had been 2 apartments before conversion to one house) then I could live in one of them and stay there. I decided I would keep a record of my efforts for the 4 years.
But very quickly my ex decided that he wanted to sell the house and get a clean break. It took 2 very long years to sell and in the end we lost a LOT of money on it as house prices tumbled.
Looking back, despite the hassle selling the house was the right thing to do. I love my wee house here and my life is good.
I never did save £40k but over the years my frugality has helped me save decent amounts to do things like buy a campervan, install a woodburner and go on several exciting holidays to see family in Singapore and Australia. I also bought a wee flat for my son.
I'm still saving for my (early) retirement. The current plan is to sell my house when OH and I eventually decide to buy a house together. Or maybe he'll move in here with me. Who knows?? I've learned over the last 6 years to just enjoy life in the present and not keep looking to the future.
So if you've been with me for a while or if you're new to my ramblings, thank you for reading and commenting and sticking with me as the blog has evolved. It really makes my day when I get a comment 😘
I wonder how long it'll be until my 1000th post...